Sex Coaching


Wellington Sex Coaching

Most of us receive very little useful education about sex, desire, intimacy, or relationships.

Instead, we spend hours scrolling online, piecing together advice from strangers, or quietly wondering if everyone else has it figured out. Guess what…they don't.

I offer a more personal, practical, and enjoyable way to learn.

We begin with conversation and always work in a way, and at a pace, that suits you. Depending on your goal, a session may involve playful exploration, curiosity, and hands-on learning.

Things we can explore together:

  • How to pleasure yourself and others

  • The art of flirting and creating anticipation

  • Desire, arousal, and turn-ons

  • Communication, consent, and boundaries

  • Confidence and self-expression

  • Feeling pleasure without shame

  • Erotic exploration and curiosities


Some people want support with a specific challenge. Others simply want to deepen their understanding of themselves, their sexuality, and what creates meaningful connection.

I may offer practical exercises, resources, books, podcasts, or ideas to explore between sessions, depending on your goals.


Why Learn This Way?

Sexuality is one of the few areas of life where people are expected to magically know what they're doing. In reality, many of the most valuable lessons are learned through conversation, exploration, feedback, and experience.

It can also be a lot of fun. Curiosity, playfulness, and self-discovery have a wonderful way of opening doors that information alone cannot.

Some of the topics sex coaching clients are curious about

Men

  • Erectile difficulties

  • Early ejaculation

  • Building confidence around intimacy

  • Dating and relationship challenges

  • Understanding desire and attraction

  • Learning to be more present and connected

Women

  • Reconnecting with desire - what do you want?

  • Pleasure, confidence, and body image

  • Difficulty reaching orgasm

  • Understanding boundaries and needs

  • Exploring fantasies, preferences, and curiosity

  • Navigating life transitions and relationships


Couples

  • Improving communication

  • Rebuilding intimacy

  • Ways to approach desire differences

  • Exploring new experiences together

  • Bringing more playfulness into the relationship

  • Learning how to stay sexually connected over time

Sex Coaching in Wellington with Sabine is facilitated at Funhouse and booked through Madam Mary. You’re welcome to complete my contact form if you have a specific question or request.