Who are your clients?
One of the questions I am asked most often is: "Who are your clients, and what do they usually book in for?"
The answer is that there is no typical Sabine client and no one reason to spend time with me. Some people I meet once as they pass through Wellington while travelling. Other clients live here and enjoy spending time with me regularly. Some want to learn, so book a sessions of sex coaching sessions. Others want to relax and be cared for, so book a sensual massage that leaves them satisfied to the core. Some arrive seeking relaxation, some curiosity, some adventure, and some because they enjoy good company and meaningful conversation.
Every person arrives with a different story, a different desire, and a different reason for reaching out. That is part of what makes this work so fascinating and enjoyable. Rather than there being one way to spend time together, there are many. And whether you seek sensual massage, sex coaching, kink sessions, intimate encounters, or companion experiences - there are many possibilities. Always.
The curious traveller
Wellington attracts visitors from all over New Zealand and the world. Some arrive for conferences, business meetings, sporting events, or for a few days of exploration in one of the country's most charming cities. Occasionally, a traveler decides they would love some good company. You can read my explore Wellington with Sabine page for inspiration and ideas - which include sharing a cocktail overlooking the harbour, visiting a gallery, enjoying dinner together, or spending a few relaxed hours talking and getting to know one another. Sometimes it’s a once-in-a-lifetime encounter. Other times, I reconnect with people every time they visit Wellington.
The occasional escape
Life can be wonderfully full and relentlessly busy. Many of my clients are successful professionals balancing careers, relationships, families, responsibilities, and endless demands on their attention. For them, spending time with me becomes an opportunity to pause. A chance to switch off the outside world for a few hours and enjoy warmth, conversation, laughter, touch, and connection without needing to be anything other than themselves. Some people book once or twice a year. Others every few months. Not because something is wrong, but because life feels better when pleasure, relaxation, and human connection remain part of the picture.
The regular
There are loyal clients who become part of the rhythm of my year. We catch up on life, work, travel plans, personal victories, and the occasional challenge. Over time, a genuine familiarity develops. I learn about the places they love, the books they're reading, the adventures they're planning, and the dreams they're quietly working towards. There is something wonderfully comforting about seeing a familiar face and picking up exactly where you left off - weekly, monthly, quarterly - I always look foward to seeing my regular clients.
The explorer
Curiosity is one of my favourite qualities in a person. Some clients arrive because they want to explore something new. Perhaps they begin with a sensual massage and discover how nourishing intentional touch can be. Perhaps they want to learn more about teasing, anticipation, confidence, communication, fantasy, or desire. Perhaps they simply feel there is more available to them than they have experienced so far. What starts as one experience often becomes the beginning of a fascinating journey of discovery.
The sex coaching client
Sometimes people arrive with a specific goal in mind. They may want support around confidence, pleasure, intimacy, communication, desire, dating, self-expression, or understanding their erotic interests more deeply. They might want self pleasure or partnered intimacy techniques, positions, to learn about anatomy & physiology or how to play with dirty talk or toys. In these situations, we might work together over several sessions, creating space for learning, exploration, reflection, and growth. Many clients eventually reach a point where they no longer need regular support - which I love to celebrate. I look forward to hearing updates from them or seeing them again when a new chapter of life presents itself.
The curious couple
One of the greatest gifts a couple can offer themselves is permission to remain curious. Did I say I love curisoity? Some couples book a session because they want fresh ideas. Others want to improve communication, deepen intimacy, explore fantasy, or simply try something playful together. Sometimes a single experience is all that is needed to spark new conversations and new possibilities at home. Sometimes couples return occasionally as part of an ongoing commitment to keeping their relationship vibrant and connected.
The Wellington adventure
Some clients love to chooses something a little more expansive. An afternoon wandering the city, a leisurely dinner, a glass of wine, conversation that meanders from travel to relationships to the meaning of life. Perhaps a gallery visit, a stroll along the waterfront, or the pleasure of sharing an experience with someone present and engaged. These longer encounters have a different rhythm. There is no rush - just the opportunity to savour good company and enjoy wherever the day or evening leads.
There is no right way
Whatever brings you here, my hope is that you leave feeling a little lighter, a little more relaxed, a little more connected, and perhaps reminded that pleasure, curiosity, and human connection deserve a place in every well-lived life.
Warmly,
Sabine x
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